Last Thursday was easily the worst night/ morning we have EVER had with Kenzie. Even counting her colicky stage.
At one point, I said to Mike (over screaming cries): “We should just give this other child to your sister or something, I don’t think I’m equipped to handle two – I’m not cut out for this” I was obviously joking, but it was so bad! She wouldn’t even take any medicine because she was hysterical the entire time. Just a little Tylenol would have helped the situation immensely, given she probably had terrible pain in her ear.
She eventually tired herself out around 9 and wanted to eat something (just jello), but then she was walking around like normal and laughing for about 45 minutes. WHAT THE HELL. I think she is good to go (if I were smart, I would have given her some tylenol in those 45 minutes of calm), and we head up to bed. I lay her down. THE WORLD IMPLODES.
Long story short, she finally went to bed at 4:30 a.m. because she just couldn’t keep her eyes open anymore. She slept on my chest for a few hours before waking up for the day.
It is the ABSOLUTE WORST when your kid can’t tell you what is wrong. I know everyone says that after your child starts talking in full sentences, you wish it would go back because they won’t shut up, but I am just so excited to soon be able to hold little conversation with her. Her personality is so fun – she’s going to comical to talk with, if nothing else.
So, as soon as I am able to the next morning, I call her doctor’s office to get her in. This was on a Friday. The one downside to her pediatrician’s office is that they are closed on the weekends. You have your ped’s cell phone number if you need to contact him or her, but of course, you feel like it has to be an absolute emergency to call them and you feel terrible doing it (I’ve done this twice, and he always sounds like he’s at a party – never rude or annoyed though). It still sucks.
I get her an appointment at 10 a.m. Another day I had to take off. My boss is great about it, since he has four kids of his own. But all I can focus on are my extra paid maternity leave days slipping away. That’s okay, though, because I was there when my daughter needed me most.
The doctor checks her right ear first. My biggest worry is that she’s going to say, “well, it’s probably just teething – just something you have to work through”….and then my head would have exploded. Instead, she looks in the first ear and says, “Ooh, that one is definitely infected” – and checks the other one and says, “and this one is trying to get infected too”….A little bit of relief washes over me. WHAT KIND OF PARENT IS HAPPY WHEN A DOCTOR TELLS THEM THEIR KID HAS AN EAR INFECTION?! I was just so happy that there was a reason behind her hours and hours of crying.
So on the Amoxicillin she went! 18 months was a good run without needing any antibiotics. For the record, she starting acting like her crazy self again almost immediately. I hope the next time her ear hurts, she is just able to tell us 🙂
And to end this completely off-topic, the show “This is Us” is nowhere close to being as good as “Parenthood” was. I just finished watching what I think was the 4th or 5th episode. I find myself fast forwarding through much of the story lines (both brothers when they are in present times). I have only been watching the overweight sister’s segments, and that ends up being like 15 minutes of the show and even that annoys me. Get it together, NBC. Nothing will ever replace Parenthood, so just bring it back, please.
PS: I remembered to wear deodorant today and even got to shower! Success all around. And ultrasound is tomorrow to find out gender. A big week for us all. Stay tuned!