Alright, so I have always hated people who come to work knowing that they are sick. Hacking up a lung and sneezing on everything in the office. They try to be rock stars. But in actuality, they are ASSHOLES. Maybe they love work too much. Work might be their escape from home. Maybe they don’t want to waste their sick days on actually being sick in bed. Saving them for a beach day. Who knows. Either way – screw them all.
I am sick again. This is probably the 4th or 5th time this winter so far. AND I AM PISSED. It’s like I’m on two weeks/ off two weeks. I know my immune system is shot from being pregnant, but COME ON. I wash my hands and use sanitizer often. I try to get as much sleep as possible and even nap on the weekends. I eat good (mostly). I take vitamins. I diffuse thieves and purification at home (my husband is now more convinced than ever that oils/ “potions” are a joke, since our sicknesses have not been subsiding). What the hell else am I supposed to do? ::sidenote:: elderberry juice is next on my list of things to try to keep my immunity up. If you’ve tried it/ use it, please let me know your thoughts.
The thing that really pisses me off is that these people who come to work sick and hacking up a lung actually have sick/ vacation days that they can use. But they choose not to. Because they want to infect everyone. And they are not pregnant. And they don’t have young kids to worry about.
I am in a position where my employer does NOT offer paid maternity leave. I get the 12 weeks of unpaid FMLA so that they have to hold my job, but that is all. Therefore, I have to save every last sick/ vacation day that I can so that I can use all of it during the first few weeks of maternity leave so I can get paid SOMETHING. And then, when I do go back to work after my 12 week “vacation”, I will have little to no sick/ vacation time left. But never fear, kids under the age of 3 never get sick, right? So I won’t need that time. I’m sure my husband will be cool with taking a day off here and there to take the kids to the doctor or whatever. NOT. So I try to be here even when I am sick, because I
don’t want to can’t waste my days (for a good enough reason).
And my final rant about health issues: Urgent Care VS seeing your actual doctor. My husband finally admitted defeat and asked me to make him a doctor’s appointment with his doctor. He has had a cold on and off for about two months now. He did go to urgent care about a month ago, and the nurse practitioner put him on the same antibiotic that my daughter was on for her ear infection. I should have told him up front to ask for a z-pac instead of amox. But then he would have called me a druggie.
Fast forward to last week, when he complains that he still has this lingering sore throat. I’ll save my “man sick vs. woman sick” for another day. But in this case, I told him he needs to make an appointment with his real doctor. So today, he must have been annoyed enough with his throat to ask me to call for him.
Today is Tuesday, January 24. The earliest they have to see even a NURSE PRACTITIONER available for a sick appointment at his doctor’s office is Thursday, February 2. WHAT THE FUCK? What is the point? That must be why we are surrounded by so many urgent care facilities that are collecting tons of money and misdiagnosing half of the time. Because it’s easier, more convenient, and they will even have the medicine you need on hand there so you won’t even have to wait for over an hour at shitty Osco (another post for this too at a later date). It sickens me. Don’t most doctor’s offices try to keep daily appointments open for those who are sick? I know Kenzie’s pediatrician does, which gives me tremendous piece of mind knowing that I can take the morning off and will be able to get in that same day, and possibly be able to return to work for the afternoon depending on her diagnosis. I just think it’s shitty, and it gives my husband one more reason to not want to schedule visits in the future – guaranteed this will be on his list of excuses “they won’t be able to get me in for weeks”
Needless to say, I will be on the look out for a new family practice doctor for both of us in the near future. I am lucky, since I see my OB every week. If I have a problem or sinus infection or flu, she will address it and prescribe medicine if necessary instead of telling me to go to another doctor or urgent care. But that convenience will go away once I have the baby, of course, other than my annual and follow ups.
End rant. Sorry guys 🙂