Just a little break from Maddy’s birth story. And because I actually got some hard earned sleep last night.
Maddy had a rough afternoon yesterday. It seems like her tummy was bothering her, but she’d still flash me smiles every now and then, so I knew she was all good. We took her and Kenzie to the park last night. You can’t just go for a walk with Kenzie without ending up at the park. I’ve tried. You start walking in the opposite direction, and she will stop, point in the direction of one of the two parks near our house, and say, “NO, PARK!”
Well, I hate the park. Back in May, she fell from a pretty high opening on the playground. It was a good 4 foot fall, and she fell on her head/ neck. WORST MOMENT OF MY LIFE. Mike and I were both there. We usually follow her up on the jungle gym, but this particular day, she decided she was going to just go down the slide 20 times. Mike sat down with me since I had Maddy while we watched her play. Of course, after she walked up the steps, she looked over at us, decided to do a little dance/ jump, lost her balance, and flew right off of the platform. Let me ask this. WHY THE FUCK ARE THERE GIANT OPENINGS THAT LEAD TO NOWHERE ON PLAYGROUND PLATFORMS? This platform was 4 feet high, and it looked like they could have been connected to monkey bars at some point. It’s like they are asking for a disaster.
We were very lucky, because she did not lose consciousness. She also had no blood, just a few scrapes from the wood chips that she landed on. We ran home so we could clean her up and check her head. I gave her a cookie to occupy her while I tried to wash off her wounds. She took a bite of the cookie, cried, and then spit it out. Now I was concerned that she chipped a tooth or something. GREAT. Got her all cleaned up while Maddy was screaming in the background. She was still pretty out of sorts. Mike hung out with her while I called the nurse triage line at the hospital to see if we needed to take her into the ER. THIS SHIT ALWAYS HAPPENS ON THE WEEKENDS. Seriously, you’ll find that your kids most often get sick or hurt on the weekends, when your doctor is not available. So you’re always second guessing yourself…do I go to the ER? Do I go to urgent care?
They told me that since her fall was less than 5 feet (I almost had to go back to the park to measure because I wasn’t quite sure, and you don’t want to be wrong about something like that), she wouldn’t need to go to the ER. Just need to monitor her for any weird signs, make sure she doesn’t pass out, etc. Luckily, we had a doctor’s appointment scheduled for that next week for a follow up, so they would check out her pretty little head then. After her good nap, and me checking up on her pretty frequently, she woke up and ate her Mac & Cheese and a cookie with no problem. Then, she started running around the table and jumping on the couch. I was thrilled that she was acting like her normal, insane self, but it also concerned me that with our luck, she would go flying off the couch and another injury would ensue. No thanks. So I think I bribed her with another cookie or playing on the iPad. Don’t judge me until you have two kids. I always said, “my kids will never play on electronics like iPads or watch TV”….hahahaha, I was so dumb. But we’ll save that for another post.
This post turned into why I hate the park, when it was supposed to be about how I actually got a decent night’s sleep. Anyhow, we took both girls to the park that evening and Kenzie had a great time. We had to bribe her to leave. Ice cream, this time. But Maddy was losing her shit as we started the walk home. It’s a few blocks from our house. So I ran with the stroller (something you’ll never see me doing, because who has time for exercise…), but it didn’t seem to help. So I took her out and walked with her, which was much better for her (try steering a dumb stroller through a winding path with a 4 month old kicking you).
Kenzie went to bed around 9 that night – no fussing, no fighting. Maddy went down around 10 p.m., which wasn’t so bad. I expected to be woken up around 2 or 3, as per usual. Well guess who waltzed into our room at 3? Kenzie P! Hahaha, I was so thrilled when I heard her little footsteps making their way to our room. I kicked Mike. Then I shoved him. “Hey, your daughter is awake”…..he made it very clear that once Maddy was born, he would be on Kenzie duty at night. I agreed. Kenzie has been sleeping through the night since before we had Maddy, of course. So this deal basically meant that Mike never had to wake up. Cool. Until now. At 3 a.m. SUCKER.
I went right back to sleep. And guess what? Maddy didn’t wake up once that night. You must be wondering if Kenzie went back to bed after she woke up Mike at 3. NOPE! Girlfriend stayed awake until I woke up with Maddy at 7. Mike had a look of pure exhaustion on his face. I just smiled. Kenzie proceeded to fall asleep on the ride to her babysitter’s house, though. It was a nice, quiet ride in.
Long story short, Maddy is a MUCH better sleeper than Kenzie ever was at her age. I know the size is a big factor, but I deserve this after over a year of crazy nights with Kenzie. Loved those nights with my girl, but mama needs her rest so she doesn’t go postal at work.