*Note – this was written a few weeks ago*
I bitch about my job a lot. A LOT. I generally have to deal with a lot of dumb people (both from the public side and people who work here), and a lot of drama.
But during and after pregnancy, I probably couldn’t ask for a better or more flexible job.
And let’s talk health insurance for a brief moment. I had heard horror stories about how expensive it could be to have a baby in a hospital, even with the proper health insurance. As in even after insurance coverage, you own hundreds, sometimes thousands. I was preparing myself for the worst. I had learned tricks about how you can call and ask for a discount if you pay for everything in one big payment. Ugh. I even prepared Mike for it.
After our fancy hospital stay (I really enjoyed it actually, aside from the lack of sleep), we got our first bill. I assumed it was just for Kenzie or just a small part of it all. Total amount due was $14. Or maybe less. I can’t really remember. But it was for both mine and my daughter’s stay at the hospital. Labor, delivery, hanging out for two days after in the mother baby wing… I kept waiting for another bill to come, but it did not. Insurance covered nearly everything. So basically, I can never get another job until I am done having kids. Or getting sick. Government insurance is the best insurance. Pay isn’t the best, but the benefits will always be worth it. We even get a $1,000 Benny card. You can use this card to pay for prescriptions, co-pays, or even (in my case) breast pumps! YEAH!
Insurance details aside, I have had two rough pregnancies (so far). Lots of nausea, lots of puking, lots of tears. When you are feeling that sick, it’s really hard to stay motivated, no matter what your job is. I am blessed to have an office with a door, a parking space that is incredibly close to the entrance, and a boss who is flexible with my schedule and understanding. Things could be a lot worse for me. There were times during my pregnancy with Kenzie when I got so sick at work that all I could do was sit in the conference room with my head on the table in the dark. Or all I could do was sit on the ground of my office pretending to file things or read through papers. But I got through it, and no one questioned me. So I have to remember that.
And now, I have the luxury of leaving the office at lunch whenever I want, and spending an hour with my daughter at the babysitter’s or taking her to the park, and picking her up right at 5 p.m. Never have to worry about overtime, or getting calls while I’m at home.
And finally, a prime example this week of why I appreciate this flexible, shitty job.
Kenzie had a fever starting on Monday. I stayed home with her on Tuesday and brought her to the doctor. The doctor said she believed it was the start of Hand, Foot, Mouth disease. The only indicator was that when she looked in her mouth, she thought she saw a few blister-like things. Plus the fever, and her lack of appetite (because maybe her throat hurt). I ask what we can do or what medicine we can give her. “You just have to wait it out, you can give her Tylenol for the fever. Usually takes 3 to 5 days to run its course”….FANTASTIC.
Anyhow, I’m still not certain it was in fact hand, foot, mouth (which by the way never existed when we were kids to my knowledge, so where are these viruses coming from?!). She doesn’t have anything on her hands, feet, or booty (no rash or anything). Maybe we just got lucky with a very mild case or it is just a random virus. Either way, I was able to take off Tuesday and Wednesday (very last minute) to take care of baby girl, since you cannot send her to the babysitter with an infection that could be spread to others. My mom came over Thursday so I could go back to work, and Mike is taking off Friday. I always get stuck taking more time off, but we will chalk it up to the fact that his job is a little more demanding than mine. Whatever. I’d rather be home anyhow. BUT, I really should be saving my time now for the next baby. Needless to say, I will be working from home more than I had to with Kenzie.
So yes, my job blows sometimes, but today, I will take it and remember that it will be worth it in the long run. If only they had paid maternity leave.